Feeling like a failure

Today I am feeling like I can't do anything right. I am disappointing my wife it seems every turn I make. I know that by letting my wife mother me is causing a lot of this friction yet I sitll let her do it. I feel like I am failing at being a husband, man, and human being. Why can't I just get over my self and just grow up already. I know that I am letting this lifetrap control me. I need to focus on that chapter in my book. I am realizing that this is a huge pity party that I am throwing myself, yet I still feel that I must throw it. What is wrong with me? I guess I think that its easier to fail than it is to succeed. I want to succeed.  to be cont....